Men!!! Let me say this again, MEN!!!!
What's up with men, especially gay men? I spend quite a lot of time on gay.com, basically because it provides me hours of "entertainment" and allows me to interact with other men in the local area onthe same level as everyone else...text-based conversations. I issued a nuclear bitchslap one night, and now I am getting flacks for it.
Why did I do the bitchslap? For one simple reason...most of the guys were bitching about how they are often ignored in the main chat room or in private chats and that they rarely get private chats. They were saying "Those men are so vain...blah blah blah." So I said to them "They are doing to you what you do to others. The Golden Rule is in effect." I even suggested a hypothetical situation saying that what if I was 6' 200 lbs stud, would anyone talk to me in private? would anyone in the room say "Wow, Tomas is cute."? They said that they would. I said that if anyone complains about other person being too vain, the first person they should blame is the person in the mirror looking back at him.
I know very well that I am not gay men's ideal man. I am not okay with it, but I am becoming okay with myself and I know that some day I will be the person that I like and I will be comfortable with my body. I know I am not on earth for other people's pleasure. I am on earth for a purpose, a reason to live, a mission in life. There is a fire in my soul, a passion to help people, a need, a desire to serve people to the best of my ability.
I shall end my rant here. For those who didn't know, yes, I am gay and I am happy that I am gay. A bit shocker for everyone.
What's up with men, especially gay men? I spend quite a lot of time on gay.com, basically because it provides me hours of "entertainment" and allows me to interact with other men in the local area onthe same level as everyone else...text-based conversations. I issued a nuclear bitchslap one night, and now I am getting flacks for it.
Why did I do the bitchslap? For one simple reason...most of the guys were bitching about how they are often ignored in the main chat room or in private chats and that they rarely get private chats. They were saying "Those men are so vain...blah blah blah." So I said to them "They are doing to you what you do to others. The Golden Rule is in effect." I even suggested a hypothetical situation saying that what if I was 6' 200 lbs stud, would anyone talk to me in private? would anyone in the room say "Wow, Tomas is cute."? They said that they would. I said that if anyone complains about other person being too vain, the first person they should blame is the person in the mirror looking back at him.
I know very well that I am not gay men's ideal man. I am not okay with it, but I am becoming okay with myself and I know that some day I will be the person that I like and I will be comfortable with my body. I know I am not on earth for other people's pleasure. I am on earth for a purpose, a reason to live, a mission in life. There is a fire in my soul, a passion to help people, a need, a desire to serve people to the best of my ability.
I shall end my rant here. For those who didn't know, yes, I am gay and I am happy that I am gay. A bit shocker for everyone.
posted by Tomas at
1:40 AM
