I never thought I would write about a reality tv show on my blog, but this post would be about The Bachelor. I watched the Finale last night and I am mad at Charlie for dumping Krisily. However he did say that he likes to be handled the way that Sarah B is handling him. Charlie said "When she says 'jump', I will ask her "how high?".

Krisily is definitely a very strong woman, despite of tears she shed, she showed remarkable ability to handle rejection with grace and dignity. She put herself aside and supported Charlie. Now that is a true sign that she loves him. I believe that Krisily will be blessed so much for being strong and supportive to Charlie and Sarah B. There is a lesson from this show that I learned. Sometime being a good person does hurt, but at the end, the good person is blessed far more than they expected.

Throughout the show's season, I learned that there are people who would consider life as something to blame when things seem bad, but with Krisily, I learned that seizing the opportunity to learn from lessons and makes choices that would ultimately bring you closer to your goals is a great thing. Last night, Krisily said, paraphrasing, I feel sorry for the next guy who dates me because Charlie showed me that I am worth so much and now the bar is much higher than it was before I dated Charlie.

For my search for Truth, I want to develop this ability to seize every opportunity in life and make it a lesson for me to learn so that I can be a better person, a person of self-worth and dignity to be able to love anyone regardless of any prejudices. Each one of us have a purpose in life and I must not disregard that importance.